BE the Driver

BE the Driver

Have you ever noticed that we humans have a habit of putting off progress – actually holding good things out at arm’s length – until some benchmark or personal milestone is met. It sounds like this: “I’ll think about (fill in the blank) when the kids get out of...
Who is Driving?

Who is Driving?

In psychology we look at what motivates a person. We look at “internal locus of control” OR “external locus of control.” In today’s world, I see a lot of “external locus of control” – meaning being moved by outward influences. Great examples of this are found...
What Are You Looking At?

What Are You Looking At?

Are you looking at what you fear OR what you want? Are you busy running from what you don’t want, what you fear? Resisting it? That is the same as focusing on it. Our brains are hard wired more so to watch for perceived threats vs. looking for opportunities to create....