Most people are participants in a perpetual race.
The race for more:
Happiness …the list goes on
It really isn’t about pursuit, but we begin the race anyway, chasing what we want.What it’s really about is creating room in life for what we want to flow in.
So, how do we make room for the things, people, and dynamics we truly want?
We have to clear life’s clutter!
Let’s take a look at the clutter. I didn’t really see this until I began looking at life from the angle of money. Money loves attention and if you don’t pay attention to it, it finds a way to get your attention. Life is the same way. We must be willing to pay attention and make room for what we want. It is easy to get distracted and fill up the space in life with all the crap we don’t really want – like the approval of others.
What a worthless pursuit! it really is about who you like, not who likes you. I have heard others say this (and I, myself am quick to proclaim that I don’t give a damn what others think) yet I find myself seeking approval through my work, my time, my money flow. It is human nature to want acceptance, it is more pronounced when our early lives were not properly nurtured. We tend to have gaping wounds in our emotional selves that really want approval and acceptance.
In this scenario it’s easy to say, “yes” and mean “no” and to fill up the calendar with crap you know in your heart does not support your goals. Which leads me to time clutter – Your calendar is the reflection of your beliefs about yourself and time. How you do time is how you do everything.
What are you running past? Who are you running past?
The answer is buried in your life’s clutter.
Are you a hoarder of emotional baggage keeping your energy clogged and life results less than awesome? Most of us are unaware of the amount of life space or time that is cluttered with unresolved matters.
Let’s begin the process of decluttering your time. Join me for a free webinar tomorrow at noon CT to begin.
Lora Newman, M.S., LPC, is a Mastery Certified Coach, and Founder/CEO of Zero2Sixty Performance Coaching, llc, a national company currently serving clients in 22 states and three countries. Lora has been helping Business Leaders bust through the barriers holding them back in business and in life for more than 18 years.
She has gained notoriety as the Founder of The 48 HR Breakthrough™ 2-day intensive where business leaders learn to replace obstacles and problems with creative, strategic thinking so they can increase business revenue, lead teams with ease, and enjoy more freedom.
Lora received her B.S. in Psychology from Drury University and an M.S. in Counseling from SMSU (now MSU.) She is a graduate of Coach U Coaching School, and is a member of the International Association of Women in Business Coaching. Lora holds duel certifications in EAGALA (Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association) as a Certified Professional and a Certified Corporate Professional.